I don't know why but knox wants to know if wanting to perform anal intercourse with your gf/wife is gay.

He's a lil crazy if you ask me.

LOL... hilarious... i think its a good question though... i feel like its about giving your complete body to another person and within a marriage is that not how it should be... i don't have an anal fetish or anything... hrm... lol.. this is funny.

I once knew a girl, that would only do anal, with her boyfriend, she said she was saving her virginity for her husband when she got married...

how do you feel is this an alternative way to abstain till marriage?

or is it something that should only be shared after marriage? or not at all?

depends how you define virginity. If you use the medical term then the girl you knew was right.
If you use the term virginity in a "no sex" way, then by having anal sex she lost her virginity. All depends on your perspective.
But I don't see anal as being gay (as long as you do it with a member of the opposite sex). It's just a sexual thing....another one of millions of ways of having sex

yea like k said it all depends on what you yourself define virginity as.

i love anal sex. not performed on me though. some of my ex's loved anal sex while others wouldnt even let me get close to it. i'm more of a vagina insertion kinda guy.

so basically your saying its a case to case scenario and as a community we can't define it lol well damn.

getting to your question knox, i think its a cheap way to save yourself for marriage. i feel once something is inserted you're no longer a virgin.

i dont feel that its only for after marriage. as i have explained in other posts about marriage/sex. if you feel comfortable in doing so then it's your choice.

i knew a girl who never liked anal until one night when i convinced her to give it a try. after that everytime we had sex she would ask me if i was going to do her from behind.

i also knew a girl that thought anal sex and doggystyle where the same thing.

some people are oblivious to the meanings of things... i dunno i guess its all up to the individual i guess.