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Old 05-14-08, 03:29 PM
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It's not you, it's me This thread bothers me (the whole concept feels degrading to me) and I'd like to go back to ignoring it.
oh no the its not you its me female mentality which actually means it is you, i am just to nice to say otherwise
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oh no the its not you its me female mentality which actually means it is you, i am just to nice to say otherwise
There isn't a "female mentality" as such. I said it's degrading because that's my personal opinion of things like this. She obviously doesn't mind and thats fine for her.
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There isn't a "female mentality" as such. I said it's degrading because that's my personal opinion of things like this. She obviously doesn't mind and thats fine for her.
i wasn't saying that due to your comments on the subject, but rather the its not you its me comment.
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alright listen everyone...a few weeks ago some tv show started in which they build up esteem of young women by asking strangers what they think of them and dressing them up and such. We had a discussion and she is convinced that no one in their right mind would think she's beautiful, hot, attractive or such...so when she agreed to this it means it may help her if total strangers have nice things to say. That's all this is for, to people say what THEY think of HER based on looks. no generalising or anything.
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I'd like to ask you for some help here.
My girlfriend is convinced she doesn't look good and she's not sexy and so on and on...
I managed to convince her to put up some pictures of her (had to mask the face) so that you can tell her how hot she looks. She doesn't believe me when I tell her she's great looking, maybe she'll believe you.
Take a look:
http://img114.imageshack.us/img114/4472/image1pk7.jpg
http://img254.imageshack.us/img254/8291/image2ad3.jpg
And please leave comments about what you think. Both males and females please tell her she looks great!
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Old 05-15-08, 01:12 PM
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alright listen everyone...a few weeks ago some tv show started in which they build up esteem of young women by asking strangers what they think of them and dressing them up and such. We had a discussion and she is convinced that no one in their right mind would think she's beautiful, hot, attractive or such...so when she agreed to this it means it may help her if total strangers have nice things to say. That's all this is for, to people say what THEY think of HER based on looks. no generalising or anything.
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just as i thought... like i said, i think she is beautiful, even though the second photo is not so flattering of a position, she is still an attractive girl.
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I would like to know. Do you think your girlfriend is sexy? Do you tell her that she is? Also as everyones comments here helped her in anyway?
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I not only think she is I KNOW she is. And I tell her all the time.
As for the comments, she'll see them for the weekend
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So she should of seen them by now correct? What does she now think? Let us know what she is like now. I hope that we have helped your girlfriend out.
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Really and truely it doesn't matter what we as strangers think, what's really important is what she thinks about herself and what you think of her. I feel she may have some low self esteem but she is blessed to have you(I think so).
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why do you need someone else's opinion on this one? its really stupid to ask for some else's opinion on this one. I think you should appreciate yourself how you are and you know better, than others.
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