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Old 05-11-08, 12:27 AM
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i am a Catholic and growing up going to church i was taught that premerital sex wasnt good. but growing up in the kind of world we live in today sex is pretty much all around.

living close to the border also doesnt help when you're a hormone ragging teenager and going across to Mexico to party and drink isnt the best. bad experiences, not sexually though.

anyways i'm happy having sex without marriage. plus if i dont get married i dont think im breaking any sin. the reason for saving yourself is to show the person you marry that it's her and only her but if i never marry then i dont need to worry about it.
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anyways i'm happy having sex without marriage. plus if i dont get married i dont think im breaking any sin. the reason for saving yourself is to show the person you marry that it's her and only her but if i never marry then i dont need to worry about it.
Unfortunately, that's not the case.

Sex was designed for one man and one woman together.

Exodus 22:16-17
If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife. If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins.

Not to be heavy, but basically what that verse is saying is that if a man and woman have premarital sex, they are to get married since they are now one.

There are many other verses that will give you the same message.
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Or maybe AJ is wrong and nobody is right!
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Lmao, yeah really.

God (if It exists) is gonna judge us on a case by case basis, and If it doesn't, then It's not a god I want anymore.
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reguardless whether you want a god like that or not, what if he is that way, once ur dead there is nothing you can do to change the fact... we just wont know until the day comes.
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Then It's not as understanding as even me, so then I'll just reject It.

But for now me and It are homies.
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Then It's not as understanding as even me, so then I'll just reject It.

But for now me and It are homies.
not saying i believe what i said, or that i don't believe what you said, just the possibilities of what different people believe,, no one will know the truth until its here... who knows the god and the devil could be the equivalent to some 10 yo kid with a magnifying glass over a ant hill and we are the ant hill. we just don't know... and somehow the fact that i believe he is a loving god, i find it hard to believe that there is only one way into heaven... i can't see him rejecting someone that choose a good way to live went to their church believed their way was right.. i think its more the belief and accepting of one god... is the way to heaven... now if you choose the wicked ways in life, then ya sure your going to be sol on that day... i just don't see a loving god rejecting someone that believe in him, just didn't pick the RIGhT way to get there being shunned away... but like i said we just will never know till that day.
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That's what I tell people too. I don't follow everything but I live a great life (in the sense I treat others with love and try to help people), and if that doesn't get me into heaven, well so be it then.
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i mean i souly believe that salvation is the true way to heaven... but i can't believe that because someone doesn't believe that but believe in god and tries to be a good person... being shunned away, but then agian life isn't fair so why should the afterlife be any different.
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Well, if there is a god who lives by ultimate wisdom, and he sends you to eternal damnation for not obeying everyone who tells you to do something, he obviously isn't very wise. I really can't see anyone being deserving of eternal damnation, and it's a dirty trick telling people that's what will happen if they step out of line without confessing it. There was this one church or group of churches that would let you buy salvation for yourslef and loved ones, even if they already died. So then... was his name Luther? He decided the way into Heaven was not man-made and that it was based on your personal relationship with God.

If you don't have a relationship with God, maybe there won't be anything to judge you by, or maybe you just get to live again. That'd be nice too. But let me tell you, if I created a planet and put all these people on it, I wouldn't send any of them to Hell, or if I had to, only ones that deliberately messed up really bad and harmed others. If you had premarital sex, if you were a hooker, if you accidentally killed someone, if you chose not to believe in me, if you outright rejected my existence, if you were a Satanist, I'd love you just the same. There's no reason not to. Also, Satanists aren't evil. They don't think Satan is evil. They're just weird and believe that demons will come to help them if they really need it.
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