i been married for 8 months never had an issue sure we have our tiffs and argument like anyone else... my wife desides you want to go hang out with a old friend of hers... the guy is gay, this is a fact, and she wanted to go with him to some gay club anyways.. i wasn't about to go, me and her have been to the clubs before always got home around 1:00 am... usually left the club around 12:00 or so... got there around 8:30 to 9:00 pm...

so i deside im not going to a gay club, and i go out with one of my friends to a movie... here it is 12:33 am, i called my wife more or less to check on her and see when she is coming home... no answer, send her a text... she says i'll be home later... i text her back telling her to call me... she doesn't call... i call her no answer voicemail over and over i leave her a voicemail telling her to call me... no answer... no reply...

she finally answers says her friend got sick and she is coming home... what does her friend getting sick have to do with not answer the phone? im not the jealous type... not usually anyways.. but she said she'd be home early... i don't care when she comes home just as long as she tells me a time. and i expect her to be home by that time..

she has never once ignored my phone call EVER... WTF am i supposed to think is going on? suddenly she gets around a old friend and she's a different person... man im pissed off.. when she finally answers the phone i told her glad your coming home we need to talk... i don't agree with going out to clubs and stuff after your married its settle down time.. starting a family time... all that should be over... wtf is her problem... why the sudden attitude change... i love her, but dayum this is the first time i've thought the word divorce and its only happened this one time... but im truely pissed off that she ignored me.

she was pregnant this time last year, and we lost the baby due to a miscarrage at three months.. now suddenly she wants to go out on the town WTF...

im sorry im just babbling on.. but im pissed... wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf!!!! grrr... i put this in heated discussion cause dayumit i need some opinions what do i do? shhhGRRRR ahhhh. i wanna friggin punch a hole in the wall.

Personally, I never understood jealousy, but I might just not have come across anything to jealous of yet.

I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Sure, your married and she's you wife, but that doesn't mean that you can't trust her and she can't go out and have a good time every once in a while. I mean, if I had a wife that didn't let me go hang out with my buddies, I'd be pissed. Plus, you really have no worries since he is gay and she went to a gay club.

its all good and taken care of appreciate the reply

thats good well keep her happy

If you don't mind me asking, did you talk it out?

of course i calmed down by the time she got home around 2:30am we talked it out she understands my point of view... we worked everything out... we always talk things out... i knew it would be okay, i just never got mad like that before, of course she's never ignored me or lied to me before either...