actually last time, i really take pride knowing that i know where my husband is always. he is always in church anyway and with friends. he doesn't go anywhere without telling me where he is. he also updates me when his plans change. i think it is pretty good and gives me security that he is safe. however, last valentines he said that the downside is, he cant give me surprises because i always know where he is. what is your take on this? what are your experiences? thanks and God bless!:-)

well i think he could still give you surprises. knowing where is always does not mean he can't surprise you or anything. well i think that it is really good that you always know where he is. but i just don't know if it is really healthy in a relationship to know where your partner is always. i think trust is better. though you don't know where your partner is.

yeah, i trust my husband. i know him to well to do crazy stuff. but yeah, when he went to cebu, he did buy me something. he got me a nice book. and i was surprised. thanks for responding.